Saturday, October 31, 2009
October Recap/November Goals
1. Set aside some financial research time. I did this! I rebalanced my 401(k) and set up automatic rebalancing for the future. I also did some research and it IS worth it for me to convert my rollover traditional IRA into Roth IRA, and I will consolidate that with my current Roth IRA. That will give me about $3,000 in 2009 contributions and cost me $600 out of pocket in taxes. I just need to call Fidelity and Vanguard on Monday and figure out how to actually accomplish this. I still need to fill out the Will & Trust Kit and the Big Book of Everything but I intend to get to that today.
2. Build a new budget. Done! I upped one savings fund by $30 a month, set aside $416 a month for contribution to a Roth, and increased my clothing budget to $100 a month. I didn’t do anything about a gym membership yet.
3. Start looking for holiday travel deals. I’ve made my plans and am now just watching for deals. Flight prices jumped $100 in the last week! I’m going to keep watching but buy within the next week.
4. Keep being super-productive at work, but cut back my hours. Sort of…I’ve been staying till seven most nights, but my boss told me to take it easier and stop trying to get it all done right at the start.
5. Set and stay within budget for the wedding weekend. Done. My friend was so beautiful and her son is adorable and her husband is great. I didn’t spend all that much money—rental car was less than $100 and I spent around $30 on gas. The bachelorette party was my next biggest expense--$40 at The Melting Pot.
6. Make some budget Halloween costumes! We gave up. I’ve just been too busy to make costumes. We might pull something together out of our closets and hand out candy, or just boycott the holiday entirely today. I’m pooped!
November Goals
1. Complete IRA conversion and set up automatic payments to max it out for 2009. I’m pretty sure I can do this all online, but I’m unclear about one step, so I’ll call next week and get it taken care of.
2. Stick to my budget! No more clothing binges.
3. Buy Christmas gifts! I’ve scheduled some days off during the week so that I can get my Christmas shopping done when it’s not totally crazy out with everyone else. I’d like to get it all done by December 1, but I think that’s a little unrealistic.
4. Handle 2010 health care contributions and flex spending. The deadline is 11/13, so I don’t really have a choice, but I’ll put it on here as a goal.
5. Spend some money on the apartment. Painting, art, whatever. I’d just like to get it done in November.
October spending
Misc Income: $156.65 (Mystery shop and survey income.)
Total income: $2,460.90
Savings
General savings $495 (electrolysis, the future fund, the sunny beach vacation fund, etc)
Retirement $147.70 pre tax (company matches that)
Spending
Cell phone $77.70
Clothes $159.01 (holy cow!)
Entertainment $65.71 (this includes movie tickets from Costco—we saw Where the Wild Things Are—as well as some books and taking an out-of-town friend out to eat)
Food—dining out $187.34
Food—groceries $151.74
Gifts $21.78
Household $32.17
Internet $16.48
Laundry $10.00
Mystery shop expenses $62.84 (the last shop…a dinner shop)
Personal $10.87
Rent $687.50
Utilities $34.06
Total spending: $1,517.20
Thoughts
I need to rein in the clothes spending! Although I do really love my new boots.
Net Worth IQ is also updated (see sidebar). My retirement accounts did not keep their $1,000/month gain I’ve been enjoying lately, but I guess yesterday’s Dow drop contributed to that. I want to set up some sidebars for my savings accounts, but I'm not entirely sure how to do that. Any suggestions?
Thursday, October 29, 2009
My 25 Frugal Things and 4 Spendthrift things
My Frugal Things
- I quit smoking.
- I use drugstore cosmetics and toiletries and even get most of those at a discount cosmetics store. No fancy stuff for me!
- I shop for clothes on sale and using coupons.
- I drink free coffee and tea at work.
- I bring my lunch to work.
- I dye my hair at home, and get my hair dye from a discount store (<$3 per box).
- I get books from work, the library or Paperbackswap.
- I do my own manicures and pedicures.
- I walk or take the subway. My subway pass is a pre-tax perk option through my job.
- Shop at Costco for bulk items, but only those we'll actually use.
- Don't have cable or a home phone.
- I stay with friends and family when traveling whenever possible.
- I'm not an early adopter.
- I don't have a pet. Right now.
- Most of my furniture came used. From the street: kitchen table and chairs, bookshelves, over-the-toilet stand, desk. Bought cheap or got free from Craigslist or friends: kitchen cart, TV trays, bookshelves, entry way table, filing cabinet, couch, dresser, nightstand, bed, rug, plastic storage bins.
- We cook almost every meal at home, and they're almost all really cheap meals.
- We don't go out a lot in general--concerts, shows, movies, nights at the pub or whatever are all special occasions.
- I don't go crazy on gift-giving.
- Peanut doesn't drink at all, and I drink sparingly.
- I turned my hobby into a self-supporting business.
- We watch TV online.
- I got most of my jewelry from SilverJewelryClub.com.
- I track my spending--every single dollar. I've been doing this for five years now.
- We're inviting people over more instead of agreeing to go out somewhere.
- I pick up change off the street.
- I buy clothes new. Even using sales and coupons, I know this is a no-no to the ultra frugalites. Oh, well.
- I travel home to visit my family kind of often. Like, four times already this year. Granted, that's a bit more than usual, but I still usually go at least twice. And I rent cars. What can I say, I love my family but I need my independence for our sanity.
- I have an iPhone, and am essentially paying for double internet connectivity at all times (I have constant access at work and home, and I'm almost always one place or the other--do I really need it on my phone, too? Yes. Yes, I do.)
- We live in New York City.
What are yours?
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Humpday LinkFest
Publishing blogger moment: I LOVE this guy's idea of an e-book reader with a slot for an iPhone. Brilliant! I would totally buy one.
I've been on a bit of a rampage to get off mailing lists and reduce the amount of personal information that companies have about me but it's not working very well. I'm getting a LOT of political advertising addressed to me this election season, but Peanut isn't. I can't figure out how that happened.
Jeez. Well, this knife just sent Peanut and me on an Amazon spending spree, and $60 later we're getting it, a salad spinner, and razor blades shipped to us. Way to be frugal.
I'm also going to paint an accent wall and I have to fix my closet, because our downstairs neighbor smokes and I can smell it through there. It's strong enough to wake me up, but I got some suggestions for blocking any cracks up, so I hope to do that this weekend.
I'm really lucky though--unlike some of SP's commentors, my boyfriend is cheap like me!
Speaking of which, in regards to my How Much Would I Spend post, Peanut says I am crazy for being willing to spend $2,500 on a computer. Like, CRAZY crazy. He wouldn't spend that much on a computer, and he needs a fancy-pants one for freelancing gigs. So, I take it back. The most I would spend on a computer is whatever Peanut tells me to spend. And he is in charge of buying all the parts and putting it together and maintaining it all.
No kidding, when I have problems connecting to the wireless on my five-year-old, $2,500 laptop, I tell him to fix it. And he looks at me cross-eyed, but I say, "Hey, the error message says "Please contact your network administrator." Please administrate!"
Thursday, October 22, 2009
How much would I spend?
- Purse: $50
- Wallet: $15
- Winter jacket: $150
- A pair of knee-high boots: $200 (but see my caveat below)
- A casual but not formal dress: $80
- Formal dress: $150
- Pants (inc. jeans): $75
- Computer: $2,500
- Phone: $250
I just went boot shopping and I had given myself a budget of $200 to spend on some quality knee high boots that will last me for a long time. But I only spent $60--granted, that was at DSW, so I'll give you that maybe the boots are technically valued at $80 or even $100. But still--did I cheap out? Am I going to have to replace these boots in a year or two, and should I have spent twice as much for something that will last much longer?
I can't tell. I don't think I've ever had anything as expensive as what I list above. I have a pair of $60 boots that I've had for six or seven years, and I'm hoping that this pair of boots will have a similar life.
My winter coat cost me $100. I've had it for almost two years and I don't like it anymore (I'm not sure I ever did like it, but I was reeling from a breakup and had no coat when I bought it so who knows what the hell I was thinking then). But it's still in practically mint condition, so I won't replace it.
My wallet cost me like $10 from TJ Maxx and I've had it for years--at least three or four. I've had to glue the strap back on a few times. Would a more expensive wallet last longer? Maybe. But I'm really picky about wallets and I happen to like this one. I'll keep gluing it back together until there's no hope for it.
What about formal dresses? First of all, the only formal dress I'm likely to own will be a wedding dress, if I even end up having one (and I'd rather not. The dress, that is). Hundreds of dollars on a dress I'll wear once? I just can't do it. This upsets my mother, but it's the way I feel. The highest I could see is $150 and even that would be difficult.
As for the other things--I get all the arguments about quality over quantity--I do. But I'd rather have six or eight $10 bags in my closet than one $100 bag. I want to switch things up. I want eight pairs of Payless heels under my desk, so I'm not stuck wearing the same old shoes day in and day out. And frankly, even if I don't like my $100 winter coat, it keeps me warm, and that's really the point, isn't it?
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
steps to freedom
It renewed my desire to consolidate my retirement accounts, along with the fact that the company where my rollover IRA lives sent me another credit card offer over the weekend. I've been trying to get them to quit sending me these things, but that was sort of the last straw. I called the number to apply and opted out, but this coming weekend I'm going to find out how to transfer that rollover IRA into my Roth IRA and what the tax repercussions of that will be. That would be another account gone, one more statement I'm not getting in the mail.
I'm very much in a reduce-reuse-recycle mode right now.
eReaders
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Woo hoo!
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Odds and Ends
As for me, here's what my week has been like:
My harassing ex-boyfriend called me this week and left a message. That was way more intimidating than an email, so I backed up the threat my father and I made, and went to court to get a restraining order.
It was granted, and I was expecting to have to pay to have it served, but I discovered that in New York, police officers will serve papers for free. Yesterday, I got notice that he'd been served, so I picked up my affidavit and now if he contacts me again, he'll be arrested. We have to go to court in December, I guess to determine whether to make the order permanent, and hopefully that will be the end of that.
It's been pretty stressful and has cost me a lot of sleep but hopefully it's over now. I don't think he's the type to get violent over this, but I guess I'll find out.
Second, yesterday I was kind of robbed. I went shopping before we met up with a friend for dinner, and I got some stuff at NY&Co (on sale plus a coupon, because that's how I roll) and then I went to DSW. While I was trying on shoes, someone walked off with my NY&Co bag, and I didn't notice for about five minutes. After I realized it, I talked to the manager and after about fifteen minutes of everyone calling around on their headsets but finding nothing, I wrote it off in my mind, left my phone number with the manager and went to pay for my shoes. I stopped back by the manager's desk on my way out, and lo and behold, they'd found my bag! I'd been able to describe exactly what was in it, and I guess the person carrying it hadn't. I kind of wish I'd got to confront them, but whatever. At least I got my stuff back. Lesson learned: Don't go shopping on a Saturday night, don't go to more than one store, or don't put my stuff down ever while trying on shoes.
Today Peanut and I spent a lot of money at Costco and the grocery store and we did a menu plan for the week and I feel pretty good about getting through this coming week with my sanity all in tact.
I also decided not to drop the class. I missed the deadline, so it would affect my GPA and I can't imagine what kind of nonsense it would cause to my loan situation. I also decided to pay out of pocket for my thesis seminars instead of taking out more loans, so my final loan tally will remain right where it is, just under $20,000.
And now it's time to finish homework, wash my hair, and clean the kitchen.
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Dow 10,000 2.0
Monday, October 12, 2009
GRRRR
Friday, October 9, 2009
Friday Night Link Fest
WellHeeled included me in her BlogHer article For Love Or Money, about spending money (and making money!) from your hobbies. This is the first year since I started performing that I will not turn a profit, but c'est la vie with school and a promotion. I look forward to just being able to go back to class right now, much less bring in surprise cash.
I have never been super crazy about the pumpkin spice latte at Starbucks, but maybe it was the price--this recipe sounds awfully good and cheap! FrugalDreamer is one of three new blogs I stumbled upon this week (the other two are Not a Buddhist and Serendipity's Guide to Saving). Check them out!
Not at all PF-related, but what do you think Wikipedia flavor tastes like? I think it tastes a little bit like everything.
I will probably be a bit scarce for a few days--heading up to a wedding this weekend, which will require a four hour drive each way, which is more driving than I do in a typical month. And I'm coming down with a cold.
School conundrum
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
What's in My Bag

My purple bag is a street vendor find! I got it from a guy with a table on 32nd Street for $10 a few months ago.
Inside is:
Amazon Kindle and case (free; beta testing for school)
Book, A Fortunate Age (free; advance reader's edition)
Staples notebook (Staples, 3 for $8)
Ikea tupperware (no clue how much it cost, it was my boyfriend's before we moved in together)
Work ID and metrocard in holder (holder was free from work, metrocard was $89)
Sandisk thumb drive, BestBuy $9.95
Chapstick, Duane Reade, 3 for $4.99
Revlon Colorstay lipstick, $1.99 at Cosmetics Warehouse on 39th Street
Hair clip, Duane Reade, 6 for $3.99
Generic cheap sunglasses, street vendor on St Marks Place, $5 (and they're awful, but I always break or lose sunglasses)
Covergirl compact, $2.50 at Cosmetics Warehouse
Wallet, $9.99 at TJ Maxx (I've had it for like six years and love it!)
iPhone ($199, AT&T) and case (generic, $7 from street vendor)
As you can see, I do a lot of shopping at street vendors!
It's weird, isn't it, that I carry a Kindle AND a regular book? I'm reading Gone with the Wind as well as my school books on the Kindle, and I'm starting to transfer work stuff to it, but I got really taken in by A Fortunate Age and I just couldn't leave it at home. I like to have lots of reading options, in case, I don't know, I wind up with hours and hours of free time and finish Gone with the Wind.
I also still carry a paper notebook despite having an iPhone to make notes and to do lists on. There's a pen in the Kindle case.
What I'd buy at TJ Maxx or Marshalls if I win:
New sunglasses
A fun clutch
Body lotion gift sets--I love those!
Sunday, October 4, 2009
At long last
This show was SO FUN. Ridiculously good fun, and I laughed out loud with glee several times.
There's no story line, just straight up dancing. The acts are divided the way comps are held, with American standard dances (waltz, Viennese waltz, foxtrot, quickstep and tango) and Latin dances (rumba, samba, cha cha, jive, and paso doble). Every single person in the cast has won multiple national and international dance awards, so you had better believe they were good (and oh my god so in shape!).
And the COSTUMES. There are no words for the sparklyness and hotness of their costumes.
In short, after about two minutes I'd decided to quit my job and become a ballroom dance superstar and my friend asked if he could use my iphone to look up any milongas (tango social dance parties) for later that night.
So fun! Thanks again to FB and Season of Savings--my friend and I had a BLAST.
And what's kept me from updating since then? Lots of little niggly things--homework, dishes, book clubs, happy hours for people heading off to different stages of their lives. And work--I've checked email multiple times over the weekend, which hasn't happened before and I hope isn't likely to be an ongoing thing--there's just a lot to do to get things started in a new job and my boss was out all last week.
And now it's almost time for bed, so I'm off to do the dishes! Good night--and cha cha cha!